Naturally, they take something akin to the men's group at my church and transform it into a navel-gazing therapy session. What a shame.
I have a friend and I had a student teacher this Fall who were big into this kind of talk and thinking. They're good people, they just buy into this belief system and are governed by varying levels of guilt they impose on themselves. They don't seem to be virtue signaling. They really do believe we live in a patriarchy that oppresses women and that they contribute to it. It's a miserable way to live, obviously. I'll go out on a limb and guess that the men in this story won't be any more contented next year at this time, nor five years from now.