I was raised in a very very Catholic family and was devout through graduation from ND.
But my mother suffered from severe mental illness and my father hid from this on the golf course and this caused me to become severely depressed as an adult.
Fortunately, I fell into a profound psychotherapy that enabled me to access and discharge my developmental conflicts and anxieties.
It also forced me to become the loving parent I never had.
Now I have beautiful children who are happily married and who are great parents.
I never gave them any religious experience.
I'm not critical of religion and I retain many of the religious values I was raised with.
But having a great family is unrelated to spiritual beliefs.