The issue is "Personhood" and even the Catholic Church doesn't officially acknowledge it at conception...per Pope Francis.
I know it's hard to accept...I really do...but you need to truly listen to what the overwhelming majority in this country is saying. You should also know that virtually everyone, including myself, wants to reduce the number of abortions, as the goal of total elimination is impossible and irrational...and deeply harmful to this country.
Think about the innocent women...what do you say to them?