The level of adherence of the faithful will always be a spectrum from "standing on the threshold of the church door looking in" to, well, the Magisterium. You should not use the least faithful to define the faith. That is disingenuous of you. You are trying to mislead people what the Church says. You would look at a hospital, and say, "See! Look everyone! See all the sick people here?! This place encourages people to be sick!" That is totally disingenuous.
Note: I'm not saying you can't make moral arguments that contradict Church teaching. Go right ahead. We can discuss.
But, when you make moral arguments that contradict Church teaching, and then you pretend that they don't contradict Church teaching, that is when you move into the territory of lies, and I don't know why you want to go there. Why not stand up for your moral arguments yourself? Why try to trick people regarding what the Church teaches?