or, approximately 1.2 million people...a small percentage for sure, but not insignificant...by contrast approximately 70-100K are deaf/blind...we don't ignore them, so why should we not care about Trans citizens who are having difficulties with their sexual perceptions? When it comes to 'Trans' athletes, I share your concern and would like to see that all remnants of masculine advantage (musculature, testosterone levels, etc.) are eliminated before allowing them to compete...and even then, on a 'provisional' basis until evidence shows true equality.
As for Blacks being mistreated and even killed by police, we've just seen the extreme example with George Floyd...but there are many others which have created the need for Black families to have the kind of talks with their children that no White family ever needs to conduct...in White families, it's just say "Yes, Sir...No, Sir" and all will be well....whereas, with Black families, that's still not enough to ensure their safety...given the long, long history of police brutality against them...
But rather than get too far down in the weeds, do you sense that there is a credible "broad brush" characterization of "ME" vs "WE" here?