He cannot connect with a real woman… because he’s terrified that his absent father will show up and castrate him for being in love with his mother.
Funny thing is… Trump suffers from the same conflicts and anxieties.
But this is always who we get for leaders. They are all impaired personalities who use external power to compensate for internal psychological deficits. Those who suffered the most developmental trauma and our political monsters… like Hitler, Stalin, Mao.