At the root of this is ineffectual parenting, along with the obvious entitlement.
What would your pops have done if he found out you were treating someone this way. I can almost piss my pants right now imagining my father's reaction, which would be totally justified.
Link: https://nypost.com/2025/09/21/us-news/oregon-sen-ron-wydens-kids-drove-assistant-to-suicide-with-sexually-explicit-behavior-homophobic-slurs-lawsuit/