as a career air force pilot and officer, i had over 16 years (of my 22+ year career) of valuable experience with flag officers of every level (4 star and below) and service - including foreign (in joint and combined exercises, operations, and planning endeavors). i know first hand how dedicated, intelligent, and patriotic these defenders are. i know how they think, how detailed they are, how careful their planning is, and how much they value their charges. if there was a discrepancy or difference of opinion, they invariably held it close and most certainly did not share it with the media. it would be considered a show of weakness that could possibly be exploited by enemies. i would find it very surprising that any of our flag officers would be willing to share a national weakness with the outside. could be wrong, but that's my experience with our military leaders.
so, when you post, "much, much more than you do," you might want to quantify before you jump off the cliff.
it's a credibility thing, y'know. and not just in this thread.