Sorry. I put no credence in your thoughts on the matter or of your catholic scholars. I unencumbered by their teachings. They will provide a healthy list of things done is His name and His response will be clear “Then I will tell them plainly, 'I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’” (Matthew 7:23).
Love without truth is a lie. The lost person isn’t a project. He is a deeply loved child of God. We must build relationships with the lost. We must truly love them and when they are ready to receive a word of truth, we can give that message with compassion.
Nope....I'm fine with those ancient scriptures.
Edit: should you be curious those old scriptures are very clear on traditional marriage and homosexuality. I would start there rather than what your gay deacon says about things....