Your previous assertion "lacked candor" and you know it.
And, again, you're emblematic of the problem I noted to Eli: you speak of all the things you want. The things to which you believe you're entitled. You speak not a word about what you...you... are obliged to do for others in a civilized society. That's telling.
"Me, me, me, me, me, me, me."
"You can't tell me what to do!"
Sounds like the sorts of things children repeat incessantly.