My advice (if you even want it) is apply early for a scholarship and decide later what to do.
There is no requirement to accept a scholie offer, but need to jump through the hoops of the application:
- App with essays
- Physical
- Interview
pretty similar to what she would need to do for AFA, USNA...
At some schools, the ROTC scholarship actually helps gain entrance. I know at least one Ivy league school that essentially pulls in 5-7 scholarship cadets as long as they meet the requirements for the university. It is as good as being a varsity athlete... if you are at the top of their list, IN.
As I mentioned, all good for us and we had a daughter deployed to Afghanistan. Not exactly what you expect for your 24 year-old daughter, but the maturity, experience and world view has been impressive. Not to mention, an added view of what service means.
In any event, good luck!