to get in to ND because I got in when no women were there. I was still on the waiting list and got accepted on Mother's Day weekend. I did not take advantage enough of that big break and I knew it was because I was always worried about my parents who had a terrible marriage and my younger brother who was a surprise born 9 years after me being around them. My mother was a very intelligent woman who never had the opportunity of an education but was light years ahead of her time. My father was a charming man and determined man who was a terrific athlete but also uneducated but with his determination did ok though he was constantly cheating on my mother as I found out later in life. OK see I faced my own shortcomings without a psychiatrist.