I attempt to teach them to be intentional in what they say and what they do. To think before you speak and think before you act. I am mostly a free range parent because I believe that you have to make mistakes in order to grow but what's most important is that you own it. If my children grow up to be people that are "present" and "authentic" then I'll feel like I did my job. And I do believe that they'll be "good people" if they follow this path.