controlled the house, senate, and presidency? No, and they shouldn't have... they won. Losing has consequences... you don't drive the boat anymore.
In my opinion, it would be wonderful if both sides could come back towards the middle and have actual real debate on issues without resorting to name calling. But, I am afraid that time has long passed. There is only one issue that I won't budge on and that is abortion. Other things, there is always room to move right or left. Politicians now are too worried about giving an inch and then being massacred over it.