Experience.
When I was 10 or 11 for about a 24 month stretch I would come home from school and let myself in since I had a dead beat dad and was a key latch kid for most of my youth.
I would open up the refrigerator and let's say a dozen times in that 24 month period I would call my mom and say, nothing to eat mom. Her response was take your pole down to the river and catch something.
Let's talk about more of my whiteness. I was the best man at my best friends wedding, he is from Puerto Rico.
More whiteness Jimbo.... I stood up for another close friend at his ceremony where he married another man who was not only gay but black too. Matter of fact I am going to watch the ND Ohio State game at their house with about 20 other of their friends in 2 weeks since his husband played ball at Ohio State and I'm gonna have a blast.
Fact is Jim, I have friends and family from ALL WALKS OF LIFE, and based upon my youth, I am the American Dream.
Bigots like yourself are the ones who try to screw this Country up but I'm not having any part of your self loathing, pitiful narcissism. You have a great day.