So according to them... you and Fr Jenkins are WRONGO! The Church blesses a marriage between a man and a woman. Not a same sex marriage. For the reasons so stated. Disagree? Take it up with them. Oh and the Bible which explicitly condemns the act of same sex relations. Let me know what Jesus thinks when you meet him. Sure He'll be thrilled with your interpretation and your the latest pew polling.
Anyway, this has been beaten to death. Like Chis, you'll never admit you're wrong. Must be an ND thing. Assuming you went there. Suspicions abound to that end.
Don't worry....the first few years will only feel like an eternity. Bring sunscreen and hydrate! Good luck, boyo!