The question is why didn't they choose Notre Dame? The kids say I didn't have as good a relationship with them as I did other schools. The other schools hit me up all the time, I never heard from Kelly, he never texted me. The other schools texted me all the time. I was more comfortable with them, had a better relationship.
If you're in the job market and there are two jobs you like and are considering, one has the CEO personally contacting you expressing their interest, the other doesn't, are you needy and entitled for feeling better about the first one? Of course not.