Have watched a lot of middle school and HS basketball over the last decade and generally speaking the girls are a lot more vicious than the boys.
The boys are physical, but there’s an understanding of the line and they usually don’t go over it when they do there’s an immediate something. in contrast, the girls are just hacking each other and physical way beyond what would be acceptable to the boys I don’t know if it’s because they’re less graceful or because they play under the rim but every time I go to a game I’m even now shocked.