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Crime and punishment in Charotte

Author: Curly1918 (16960 Posts - Joined: Aug 30, 2017)

Posted at 9:40 am on Sep 10, 2025
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I have a 21 year old stepdaughter whose mother in a Ukrainian immigrant who grew up when that country was under the brutal heel of Soviet communism. My stepdaughter looks very similar to Iryna Zarutska, the Ukrainian refugee from Putin's terror who was stabbed to death while riding on the light rail system in Charlotte, NC. Both my stepdaughter and have been to Ulraine and have tremendous sympathy for the plight of those innocent people, who have suffered from Russian tyranny for over a century. Both of us are also struggling to cope with the tragedy in Charlotte.

This incident brings to my mind the novel by Dostoevsky about a senseless murder and the agony of the perpetrator to deal with his guilt. Of course, Decarlos Brown is no Rodion Raskolnikov. The latter was motivated by severe poverty while the former suffers from severe schozophrenia. Rodion ultimately confessed and was sentenced to prison, while the latter is probably not aware that he took a life and has no trepidation about any punishment for his crime.

Ironically, I actually have sympathy for Decarlos as a result of the very challenging psychotherapy I once endured. This experience informed me of the critical importance of loving, balanced care by BOTH a mother and father during childhood. .Anything ;ess results in one of the myriad forms of arrested psychological development. Schizophrenia in particular derives from parenting deficits in very early life which result in a fractured sense of self. I don't know anything about Decarlos' early childhood but I suspect it was chaotic. It is the infant Decarlos for whom I feel sympathy, for he was an innocent then as was Iryna on that train.

Some here will want to blame our liberal criminal justice system for this tragedy and others will claim that this unique incident is being hyped by the racist right wing for political purposes. Both reactions are defenses against awareness that all our mental/emotional/behavioral processes are derived and too often compelled by unconscious conflicts and enxieties extant from our earlly development.

MY personal take: It's time to focus our energies on how to best raise our children.


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While the overall sentiment of your post is accurate I have a parallel question

Author: Quest4twelve (7280 Posts - Joined: Aug 5, 2015)

Posted at 12:02 pm on Sep 10, 2025
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The right has adopted this mantra that people who commit lesser crimes should be put away for life to prevent victimizing anyone else. I say and it's obvious that's not how our criminal justice system works.

There will always be situations where someone gets out and reoffends, no matter what. Some people just live the life of crime. Until we invest in how we treat those people instead of just bring them through jail and release them based on sentencing, there is nothing else we can do.

This case is garnered national attention because it was big, bad back mean attacks blonde girl. To say otherwise is horse shit!


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